I wrote a very long comment on WCIC's blog post about decluttering and then realized that I should turn it into a post of my own. Here it is, slightly edited.
Every week I meet new overwhelmed clients who have hired me to walk through their home with them and teach them how to conquer their clutter. I break everything down for them into baby steps and teach them how to get through it themselves.
Every week I meet new overwhelmed clients who have hired me to walk through their home with them and teach them how to conquer their clutter. I break everything down for them into baby steps and teach them how to get through it themselves.
Every time, I learn the build-up has much less to do with the stuff... and much more to do with
what's going on inside the person I'm there to help.
what's going on inside the person I'm there to help.
Decluttering is amazingly freeing, but you will need to do it all again and again if you don't figure out your whys. In business, your "why" is the reason you do what you do. In clutter, your whys are the lies you tell yourself to make you think keeping the stuff is worth it.
Have you heard some of these before?
Have you heard some of these before?
I should get rid of this but...
... it was so expensive it would be wasteful to get rid of it.
... someone else might be able to use it.
... I might need it again someday.
... my friend who gave it to me would be upset if she knew I didn't keep it.
... it was so expensive it would be wasteful to get rid of it.
... someone else might be able to use it.
... I might need it again someday.
... my friend who gave it to me would be upset if she knew I didn't keep it.
And those are just the little lies.
Underlying those are much bigger lies... many of which we don't even realize we believe.
God isn't really my provider.
(If He was, why would you save so much for "just in case?")
This is how I've always lived. I can't change.
(How many times a week do you say that to yourself?)
We can't have nice things.
(If you believe that, you'll make sure it's true.)
I could do a whole book on the lies we tell ourselves if I got started!
The power of life and death is in the tongue and faith comes by hearing. Put those verses together and it tells you that faith is voice activated! What you hear yourself say, you will believe. Say these things to yourself out loud today any time you think about any of those lies:
I can learn to be organized. I don't need so much stuff.
I deserve to live with the peace of mind that comes from a clean and organized house.
God is my provider and I don't need to fret about what I may or may not need in the future.
God is going to use my decluttering to bless others!
Not sure how that last one is possible? Read on...
God isn't really my provider.
(If He was, why would you save so much for "just in case?")
This is how I've always lived. I can't change.
(How many times a week do you say that to yourself?)
We can't have nice things.
(If you believe that, you'll make sure it's true.)
I could do a whole book on the lies we tell ourselves if I got started!
The power of life and death is in the tongue and faith comes by hearing. Put those verses together and it tells you that faith is voice activated! What you hear yourself say, you will believe. Say these things to yourself out loud today any time you think about any of those lies:
I can learn to be organized. I don't need so much stuff.
I deserve to live with the peace of mind that comes from a clean and organized house.
God is my provider and I don't need to fret about what I may or may not need in the future.
God is going to use my decluttering to bless others!
Not sure how that last one is possible? Read on...
As I was helping a client a few months ago through our "Love Where You Live" program, we came across a stack of pants. Brand new, with tags, in a size that the client never intends to wear again and is not a common size to begin with.
There were a lot of lies she could have told herself to make herself keep them. "They were expensive, maybe it isn't too late to return them." or "I might come across someone who can use them." or any number of others.
Instead she chose to donate them, along with a lot of other clothes. As I was driving the bags to Redeemer Lutheran to donate to Single Mom's Morning Out, I remembered the pants and started to tear up. It just hit me.
I don't know what single mom out there needed nice work slacks in a size 18 Tall, but God had already provided them and she had no idea that they were waiting for her that morning. Because one person didn't believe the lies, another person received a blessing.
Stop believing the lies that are holding you back!
You CAN Love Where You Live!
As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.
~Proverbs 23:7
~Proverbs 23:7
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